Tuesday, July 12, 2005

肤浅

有人因为别人的赞美而开心,
有人因为别人的认同而快乐,
有人因为别人的羡慕而骄傲,

有人因为别人的批评而伤心,
有人因为别人的不满而自责,
有人因为别人的鄙视而自卑,

是不是很肤浅,一切都是因为别人,为甚麽不是因为自己。

4 comments:

Kancil said...

不必在意他人的眼光, 我们为自己而活.

不精な猫 said...

What will life to be like if we care too much about other people? Its always tiring to care about other people's feeling. But if you have no choice, limit your "scope" to those who really have influence in something you are looking forward.... my 2 cents...

不精な猫 said...

if you can get 'financial freedom' then you may in the position to just care about yourself... but on the other hand, do you think we will be very selfish when start to think just about ourselves?

Ruth Tam said...

We should take care of our own feeling as well.
I don't mind being happy because of people's praise or nice words. However, I always try not to be unhappy if people critise me. Sometimes, I can change, but there are also times I can't or I don't want to.