Saturday, August 13, 2005

新朋友

我是以选择性来交朋友的。 不是每个人我都会要和他/她们做朋友。而且是从第一眼看到对方就下判断说他/她是好人还是坏人。我承认自己很幼稚,也在尝试要摆脱这个“观念”。
这个星期当我第一眼见到他(Mr.A)的时候,从他的自我介绍、衣着等给我的感觉是个很市侩的人(油头粉面),我和自己说我不喜欢这样的人(很衰哦!)但Mr.A反而很喜欢和我讲话,午餐时还主动找我聊天。透过聊天,发现我们有很多共同点,共同的话题...瑜珈、静心、有机食物、癌症等等。就这样我又多了一个新朋友。

4 comments:

Ruth Tam said...

No doubt first impression is very important. I always think the way a person dressed also tells something about the person, or how he wants others to see him.

不精な猫 said...

Agreed on ruth tam's view. Obviously nobody is able to match 100% what you would hope a friend could be anyway...

Anonymous said...

So,always don't judge a book by its cover.
Give other people a chance = give yourself a new friend.

Kancil said...

这不能怪你。每个人都会有这种反应。尽量提醒自己把眼光放远一点吧!